My daughter’s prom boutonniere included a small folded card the size of a credit card produced by this same company that contained some excellent information. This is what it said:

I deserve:

• To always be treated with respect.
• To maintain my individuality.
• To have friends and activities apart from my boyfriend or girlfriend.
• To say no.
• To change my mind at anytime.
• To refuse sex or affection at anytime.
• To not be hurt physically or emotionally.
• To end a relationship.

I will:

• Always treat my boyfriend or girlfriend with respect.
• Never hurt my boyfriend or girlfriend physically, verbally, or emotionally.
• Respect my girlfriend’s or boyfriend’s decisions concerning sex and affection,
• Not be controlling or manipulative in my relationship.
• Accept responsibility for myself and my actions.
• Respect myself.

This same information holds to us as adults. Share this information with your teenagers, with your partner or spouse and Stand for who you are and don’t be afraid to say NO!

"No Means Know"